Late summer and early fall are popular times to release new parenting and education books, and this season is no different. My mailbox has been filled this year with previews of books, several of which I highly recommend, including (in order of release):
Take Back the Game: How Money and Mania Are Ruining Kids’ Sports–and Why It Matters
By Linda Flanagan.
Ok, so this one is from last year, but after shuttling my oldest daughter around to swimming all year and then spending most of my early summer volunteering for the swim league in Montgomery County, MD, I finally got around to reading it. For Gen X and Millennial parents, Flanagan traces how youth sports have changed dramatically from the local and school fields to a year-round competitive and lucrative industry that has led to burnout and injuries for our kids. For those of us with kids, she shows what happened to youth sports and explains how to make it fun again. And for those in higher ed, what we need to worry about when kids who have been playing a sport almost since they could walk show up on campus.
Middle School Superpowers: Raising Resilient Tweens in Turbulent Times
By Phyllis L. Fagell
As the father of two middle schoolers, this book is likely to be by my side this school year ahead. Fagell spends her days as a professional school counselor working with middle schoolers, and so she brings the goods and outlines the 12 superpowers that middle schoolers need to activate when they face the most challenging situations, from flexibility to healing to balance. My favorite chapters are on belonging and risk taking because they are not only backed by research and science, but these two superpowers in particular are critical for adolescents to develop for success later on in college.
Never Enough: When Achievement Culture Becomes Toxic-and What We Can Do About It
By Jennifer Breheny Wallace
I love the title of this new book. Although the subject is stressful, the book is not. Itās such an easy read, mixing together personal stories of kids and families we can all identify with, along with a healthy dose of research to back up the advice given throughout. The big takeaway from the book is that in our worry about the scarcity of opportunities for young adults right now we have put more pressure on our kids to perform rather than helping them feel like they āmatter”āand have intrinsic self-worth thatās not tied to a high GPA, test scores, or getting into the ārightā college. As Lisa Damour tells Wallace, āthe difference between getting a 91 and a 99 is a life.ā I love that quote!
Erasing the Finish Line: The New Blueprint for Success Beyond Grades and College Admission
By Ana Homayoun
I was lucky enough to be asked for a pre-review of this book, so let me share my full blurb, which says it all: āGetting into college has become an endless series of jumping through hoops for teenagers, yet when they get to campus they don’t often know their purpose for being there. In this timely and important book, Ana Homayoun gives students and families the blueprint they need to launch into a fulfilling life and engaging career. At a time when the skills needed to keep up in any job are churning at an ever faster pace, Homayoun provides us with a guide to the foundational skills that will help us succeed no matter what.ā
Growing Up in Public: Coming of Age in a Digital World
By Devorah Heitner
Every day as I scroll through my feeds on Facebook and Instagram and see the updates on my friendsā kids (or even post my own), I wonder: would I have wanted this when I was a kid? In a day and age where every moment of life can be sharedāand most worrisome, comparedāHeitner shows me and other parents how to help tweens and teens balance identity, privacy, and reputation in the digital (and very public) world theyāre growing up in. I love the storytelling of Heitner in this book because she shows us examplesābacked up with easy-to-understand research and adviceāthat I think any parent navigating this world can relate to. Few parents grew up in the world that our kids are now navigating, and Iām thankful to Heitner for giving me this guide to show me how to support my kids.