I occasionally hear from college leaders who go through the admissions process with their own kids and say to me, “So, this is what our families face.”
In the last three years, Martin Van Der Werf, a former colleague from The Chronicle of Higher Education (and in my much earlier life, The Arizona Republic), went through the admissions process with his two sons and recently wrote not only about what he learned during the second go-around, but how the system might be reformed.
You can read the entire series here. Last week, I emailed him about what prompted him to write the series and his big takeaways. His responses follow:
There’s a lot of information (some might say “noise”) around college admissions. Why did you decide to write this series?
It started with me just wanting to write about my son’s process of finding the college that he went to. And I did write about that. But I had taken a lot of notes, and once I read them again, I thought they might be observations that were interesting and useful to others—about what colleges do right and wrong, how parents and their kids get intimidated by the application process, how people in the middle of it are being slammed by recruiting and deadlines and don’t know in the moment if they are doing the right thing. I had just finished going through the process for the second time, and I wanted to put what I had learned out there.
It is more “noise,” yes, but I don’t have an angle: I am not trying to steer people toward a particular choice (other than against Early Decision!), and I am not trying to make money or anything. I just want to help people take a calmer rational approach.
You’ve been covering higher ed for more than two decades. Did you learn anything from writing this series that you didn’t know before or appreciate?
I’ve written a lot about colleges, but never about admissions. I had read and written about the difficulties that small colleges have attracting applicants, and as I skimmed through the hundreds of emails and pieces of mail that my sons got, I started feeling bad for some of these colleges, They are up against astronomical odds, and I really began pulling for them a little bit. My son applied to Clark University, for example, which I think is a wonderful but little-known college in Worcester, Mass. I came to appreciate how precious it is to win a student in the recruiting war for Ursinus College, Albright College, McDaniel College, to name just a few that got students I know to enroll.
But I kept wondering how unsustainable this seems. You have to be able to scale these recruiting wins, and win two kids at every high school instead of one. So it got me thinking a lot about how these colleges can break through. That’s why I wrote about the blandness of much of the recruiting materials I saw and thought about how some colleges might be better off recruiting students as a group. Given the current state of affairs, they have very little to lose by trying to do something completely different.
How is the college search different for those who cover this or work in higher ed (like you do) and then go through it as a consumer/parent?
There is a real temptation to drive the bus. I know a lot about colleges, right? And I thought I could put that knowledge to work. But I wanted to stay neutral because I thought if Reid went to a college only because I wanted him to go there, he might resent it and not make the college experience his own. A person only gets to do the full-time residential undergraduate experience once—it was fundamental for me because my parents were very hands off.
The closest I got to steering him is I would look at the list of colleges that were sending representatives to his high school and suggest which sessions I thought he should go to. But I learned that my 60-year-old mind couldn’t always express to his 17-year-old mind why I liked a certain college, and why he should consider it. And so a lot of the time he didn’t listen to the colleges I thought would be good fits for him.
But I think he appreciated my advice on other issues, like whether he should submit SAT scores. That was when I felt I could use my knowledge and experience to benefit him. For a lot of the rest of it, I felt like I was just along for the ride. I am a lot more knowledgeable of a consumer than most people in this process, but I tried to relax and let him drive.
As I write in Who Gets In and Why: “No one sends high school juniors a glossy brochure explaining that the top liberal arts colleges are pretty similar. Or a viewbook about engineering co-op programs that says here are a couple of good options for you. Who can blame students for focusing instead on individual brands? Remember that’s what colleges are selling.” So as a result, I was interested in your one piece about marketing in groups. It seems like such a good idea, especially as student search becomes more expensive. Why don’t you think colleges adopt that?
In one word: pride. Every college starts immediately by telling you how “different” it is. And it feels like they are competing against all 4,000 four-year colleges in this country. But that isn’t how consumers see it. Most people looking at colleges are considering only a small group, in similar locations with similar profiles.
Students self-select into niches. One student is generally not looking at six colleges in the Carolinas and one in Oregon. They are very likely to stay in the Carolinas. Another student who wants to study music isn’t looking at technology schools. So a college doesn’t have to wrest a student away from 4,000 competitors, it only has to beat 4 or 6 similar colleges. Every college knows what the other colleges are with the most overlapping applications. So they should focus on how they can win students over those closest competitors. And I think the best way to do it is to embrace the idea that students are considering you head-to-head, and if you give us equal time on the same stage, I can win enough students over by talking about our commonalities and our differences. That would require a pretty big shift in recruiting, however.
You write about the trap of early decision (ED), which were in the midst of right now. Most kids apply regular decision, but more selective schools are leaning more into ED than ever before as their yield rates fall. So how can students not fall into the traps that colleges are setting up everywhere if they want a chance to get in or get merit aid? This seems to be a game where colleges set the rules and win more often than not. How can students/parents become more like consumers in other sectors and maybe win at the game sometimes?
It may be the only game I can think of where the only way to win is not to play.
Colleges have used Early Decision to create artificial scarcity. I think it is a red flag when a college admits half of its class through Early Decision. That is not a college that is being honest and fair with its applicants. It is heartbreaking to see people take out $50,000 loans to attend a particular college for one year when they could have gone to any one of five dozen other colleges that are just as good.
We have this sick obsession that a person will be defined for the rest of their lives by the college they went to (see Huffman, Felicity). And so these people are dying to get into a particular college. But I think you have to look at it from the flip side: there are a lot of colleges that are dying to have your child. And they will pursue the applicants that they really want with merit aid. But you will never know how well you could have done if you play by the college’s rules.